As a River’s Edge Family for many years, I am saddened to report that this last year has been a terrible experience for my family. The program has been sold to new leadership, and things are not transitioning well. I am hoping to prevent further trauma to families.
I’m deeply disappointed by our experience with the Learning Lab at River’s Edge. While the program presents itself as nurturing and inclusive, what we encountered was a pattern of exclusion, unaddressed bullying, and a lack of meaningful emotional support.
Over several months, I raised concerns to staff and leadership about children being repeatedly targeted or isolated; often through intimidating group behavior that went unaddressed by staff. Games involving themes of war, slavery, and jail were used as play frameworks, creating power dynamics that many children (including mine) found distressing and confusing. These themes encouraged dominance and exclusion rather than cooperation and empathy, and they quickly escalated into dysregulated and unsafe interactions.
Rather than guiding children through conflict resolution or emotional regulation, staff frequently minimized or ignored what was happening, despite many attempts to inform. Even when children showed clear signs of overwhelm or distress, intervention was inconsistent or absent. In some cases, children were blamed or labeled as “the problem” in front of others, which only worsened the sense of exclusion.
When I continued to advocate for a safer, more thoughtful environment, the program chose to remove my child instead of engaging in dialogue or making improvements. This was devastating and will likely leave a lasting impact on my child who already struggles to find a place of belonging in the world, but felt like he once found it there.
I’m sharing this review in hopes that River’s Edge leadership will take these concerns seriously and make needed changes. Every child deserves to feel safe, seen, and supported, especially in environments that claim to foster community and growth. Even if it’s too late for my kid.